How to Know If Your Child Needs a Tutor: 5 Key Signs
Most of you know that I’ve had the privilege of being a classroom teacher and supporting children both in large groups and one-on-one. One thing I know for sure: every child learns at their own pace, and sometimes they just need a little extra support to thrive.
If you’re wondering whether your child might benefit from a tutor, here are five signs to look for- based on what I’ve seen in the classroom and heard from parents.
1. Homework Is Taking Way Too Long (and Ends in Frustration)
If your child spends hours on what should be a 30-minute assignment—or if homework time consistently ends in tears, arguments, or shutdowns—it may be a red flag.
In each new grade level, students are developing independence and stamina. If your child avoids assignments or needs constant help to get through them, a tutor can provide the targeted instruction and confidence boost needed to make things click—and ease the stress on everyone at home.
2. They Say Things Like “I’m Just Not Good at Math”
It’s heartbreaking when a child starts believing they aren’t smart. When I taught 3rd grade, students would say things like, “I’m bad at reading,” or “I’m not as smart as everyone else,” and I even heard negative self-talk creep in as early as first grade.
When kids start to label themselves or view certain subjects with a negative lens, it is often a signal that they are struggling more than they let on. A tutor can gently rebuild confidence by reteaching concepts and celebrating small wins. A positive mindset is just as important as academic progress!
3. The Teacher Has Expressed Concerns, But You’re Not Sure What to Do Next
Maybe your child’s teacher mentioned that your student is falling behind or having difficulty meeting grade-level expectations, and it can be overwhelming to know what steps to take or how to help at home.
Tutors can bridge that gap between school and home by aligning tutoring sessions with what’s happening in the classroom, providing personalized support that complements school goals.
4. They Struggle with Focus or Following Directions
This doesn’t always mean a child has ADHD or a learning issue—it might just mean they need more personalized guidance and fewer distractions than a busy classroom can offer. If your child has trouble starting tasks, staying on topic, or following multi-step directions, personalized tutoring might help.
In private one-on-one sessions, tailoring the pace and approach to your child’s learning style helps build focus, stamina, and ownership of their learning.
5. You Just Want to Prevent Gaps Before They Grow
Tutoring isn’t just for kids who are struggling—it’s also a powerful tool for building momentum! Some families seek tutoring to build confidence, keep up momentum during transitions (like moving from 2nd to 3rd grade) or to prevent the dreaded "summer slide."
I am dedicated to helping kids stay sharp, feel confident, and start the new school year strong. Proactive support now can make a big difference later.
💡 Final Thoughts
As someone who has sat at the front of the classroom, I know what’s expected of students today—and how hard it is to meet every child’s needs in a large group. Tutoring is not about “fixing" your child; it’s about giving them the space, strategies, and encouragement they need to feel capable. It can truly be transformative—not just academically, but emotionally.
Tutoring gives your child:
A safe space to ask questions
The freedom to learn at their own pace
A trusted adult who believes in their potential
If you’re curious whether tutoring might help your child, I’m always happy to chat or do a quick learning check-in. Sometimes, a little support goes a long way!
